CARPE DIEM – seize the day!

My Dad and I have a favorite saying…it is simply Carpe Diem!  This is the Latin form of “seize the day”!  I love this simple saying.  Instead of think about the day, or fear the day, or get through the day, it’s SEIZE the day!  It implies action.  It is active, not passive.  It implies control.  What exactly can we control?  The events of some days seem very much out of our control.  But I do believe we can control our attitude toward events and people.

I believe that all good gifts and talents come from a loving God, and that when you share your talents with others, you often help them as well as yourself.  In photography, I love the concept of “paying it forward” and that photography can be a gift to others.  In the last year, I have adopted the City of Germantown.  I have done numerous photos for Parks and Recreation, including the Bobby Lanier Farm Park and the Special Recreation programs, all free of charge.  This year, I was asked to do the PROM photos for the special recreation department.  They provide an outstanding evening for individuals with mental, physical, emotional and other challenges.  Their decorations were beautiful, they provided food and drinks, music and entertainment for about 130 people in the Germantown area, all without cost to participants!!!  The participants really dress up for this event.  It’s a dressy, formal evening of fun.

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I had a great time, and I know they did, too!  Have I ever photographed a formal event before?  no.  130 formal photos in a short time? no.  But I believed in myself, my equipment, and decided to seize the day.  I learn something new every time I get my camera out.  So, here’s to taking charge, paying it forward, and deciding to seize the day!  Try it!  You just might surprise yourself!

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….he fills my days with endless wonder…

hey friends!

Recently I attended the movie “Les Miserables” with some friends, and was reminded of the spectacular music and lyrics that brought Hugo’s work to life.  The lyrics include “he filled my days with endless wonder” and I cannot help but feel that way about my son, my youngest of 4 children.  Now, when I say that he fills my day with wonder, many of you will think of the meaning of the word “wonder” as awe, majesty, surprise, serendipity.   The kind of “wonder” that you feel when you see a beautiful sunset, the vast expanse of the ocean, or the majesty of God’s creations here on Earth.  Certainly, my son does often help me to feel this kind of “wonder”.  And, certainly, he is full of surprises.  The diagnosis of down’s syndrome was not really a surprise, but the diagnosis of autism along with that, at about age 3, was.  And, the third diagnosis of Crohn’s disease at age 7 was more than surprising.  It threw me completely into a tailspin, a mommy “meltdown” of sorts.  Certainly, any one of the 3 diagnoses would put most mortals into a shivering, quaking, fearful, depressed mess of humanity.  However, I am not a mere mortal.  I have my roots in divinity.  My father is a great genealogist.  Some of our family lines go back to women of distinction.  Among them, Joan of Arc, and Mary (Queen of Scots).  Surprised?  don’t be!  If you do YOUR genealogy and get it back that far, you will probably find you have royal roots too!  Does that make a difference in how you see yourself?  Does it give you hope to make it through your challenges?  I think it must.  I think I also tend to treat other people like they have divine roots and royal heritage as well.  Well, back to the idea of “wonder”…In addition to the awe kind of “wonder”, I find myself wondering about some other things.  I wonder if he’ll ever be completely potty trained.  (he’s 12…should I give up?)  I wonder if we can stay on top of all the outside appointments with specialists and therapists.  I wonder if he’ll live with us forever.  I wonder if I’ll ever have an empty nest…??

When we moved to the mid-south, I wanted to work part time, but my experience is in the Airline Industry.  Anyone that has ever worked in the airline industry will tell you that getting the schedule you want is all about seniority.  The people working day shift with weekends off often are the most senior employees.  I dreaded the thought of more shift work, working weekends and holidays, and after 14 years in the airline industry, starting over once again.  That is when I decided to turn to Photography!

I needed something where I could control my schedule around doctor appointments and Gavin’s health.  Something I could do with small blocks of time.  Something creative and rewarding.  Thus, wallybird photography was created in 2012.  My first year in operation was very busy.  I applied for a federal trademark through the Patent and Trademark Office.  (USPTO) So, wallybird photography is a federally protected, registered trademark.  I studied almost everything I could get my hands on about photography and took classes online on how to improve my technique and how to process and edit in Adobe Lightroom.  I became a contributing photographer to shutterstock and some other online stock agencies.  I’ve met some of my goals, and have new ones for 2013!  I’ve run in to some wonderful, free, internet sites that will help you take your photography to the next level.  Check out http://digital-photography-school.com/  and find answers to everything from aperture to white balance.  Even advanced photographers can find something there of interest!

Here are some photos of our little guy, and here’s to another week of “wonder”!!!

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despite what the groundhog saw…

hey friends.

If I’m not mistaken, that expert on forecasting, the groundhog, predicted an early spring this year.  I know most of my friends in Minnesota and upstate New York are wondering about this prediction, with even more new snow added to their accumulation!

We’ve lived in many states, and experienced Spring in many places.  Here in the (mid)South, spring starts early with daffodils in February and progresses through almost every color of the rainbow by June.  Our winters are fairly moderate, with an occasional ice storm or some snowfall, usually melted within 48 hours.  Here’s what our winter looked like:Image

As much as I enjoy the moderate winter, it isn’t the celebration I experienced in Minnesota.  After a long, hard, winter, I took great joy at EVERY perennial that reappeared in my yard!  I marveled that anything could survive outside in such harsh conditions.  I thanked God for every plant that showed the tenacity to come back after sub-zero wind chills and layers of snow and ice.  It gave me hope that I, too, could survive my experience here, as a seasoned, “perennial” parent.  Maybe God celebrates my growth and resiliency as much as I was celebrating these little blossoms!  The thought put a smile on my face.  Although Spring is not as much of a celebration here in TN,  it still fills me with wonder.  The other day I was driving and rounded the corner to see an old barn, sitting on a hill, with a vibrant green field below it and dark, threatening skies above it.  The contrast between old and new, darkened skies and bright clouds was amazing:Image

Hoping you find wonder in Spring, wherever you may be this year!

 

 

Parenting and Photography – Continuous Improvement

hey friends!

Today I’m going to introduce the concept of “continuous improvement” for both parenting and photography, which is an idea that has kept me sane!

Long ago as a young parent, I tried to follow the books and do everything perfectly.  I have since given up on perfection (after 4 children) and embraced the idea of “continuous improvement”.  Are things a little better today than yesterday?  Is some small facet of my life improved?  Have I helped someone else’s life improve in some  way?  This concept has been especially helpful with parenting a child with special needs.  Sometimes, you have to look hard to find the rays of sunlight on dark days, but they ARE there!

Here are 3 quick things that might help you to become a better photographer:

1)  Add a lens hood to your Digital Camera!   Lens hoods are designed to prevent stray light from hitting your lens and causing “lens flare”.  They are ideal for very sunny days.  Using a lens hood does not affect your settings (aperture, ISO or shutter speed).

2) Polarizing filter – remember the last time you hit the slopes to ski or snowboard, and you put on your polarized glasses or goggles?  A polarizing filter screws onto the front of your lens and reduces reflections on water, glass, and other reflective surfaces.  It also helps to normalize the level of light between the sky and ground.

I use lens hoods and polarizing filters on ALL my lenses.  They also protect your expensive DSLR lens from getting scratched and may even save your lens from breaking if you drop it on the ground!  The other day I was taking team photos for my son and his buddies with my 50mm lens.  He threw a basketball full force right into my camera.    The lens hood and filter prevented any damage to the lens itself, and I came away with just a small cut in my eyebrow and some bruising!  ’nuff said!

3) post your work so you can see progress (there’s that idea of continuous improvement again!) and print out wallet sized copies of photos you love.  On each photo, write down your aperture, shutter speed, ISO and anything else you were doing right.  I promise, you’ll see progress, especially when you take the plunge to manual settings!  I attach the photos to the wall with painter’s blue tape, so I can get them off without damaging the paint.

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I was editing some photos one afternoon and my son brought this up and I put it on the wall next to mine!  (of course, his is more COOL than mine!)

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That’s all for now!  Have a good week, and try to find joy in the small, continuous improvements in your life!

 

Motivational horses and people!

hey friends!

Have you ever had one of those days where you feel content to just chill in a chair and let the world go by?  How do you get motivated to get to work?

My son participates in therapeutic riding at a place in TN called Trinity Farm.  (for more info, their website is http://trinityfarmtn.com/  )

Many years ago, our family lived in Montana.   My grandpa had a ranch with 2 quarter horses named Queen and King, and a shetland pony called Prince.  My earliest memories from age 0 to 5 included the horses.  Feeding them, brushing them, drawing pictures of them, riding them, and helping when I could.  In my teen years, my folks let me take english riding and jumping classes.  I loved it, but in high school at some time I gave that up to run track and dance ballet.

When we were looking for a sport or activity for our son in Minnesota, therapeutic riding was suggested and we started with that at about age 6 or 7.   We would get to the facility, and the horse was already tacked up and ready to go (western saddle).  When we were done, they led him away and we left.

After moving to TN, I asked again about therapeutic riding.  Gavin didn’t do well with soccer, and I wanted something he could do almost year round.  Our pediatrician recommended Jason and Poppy Doyle.  After filling out the forms we started working with Poppy and their therapeutic riding coach, Jenna.  I was impressed with the approach they used.  The students were encouraged to help with everything!  Grooming, hooves, tack, all of it.  This gave Gavin great practice with fine motor skills, (buckles, brushes, etc) proprioceptive input (handling a heavy saddle, wearing a helmet, riding breeches, and half chaps, and of course trotting) and required balance and coordination.  Wow!  It was like several therapy sessions built into one!

We still have behavioral issues.  He still has days where his standard answer is NO!  In the first set of photos, Gavin couldn’t seem to get out of his chair.  So, if you can’t get the rider to the horse, you take the horse to the rider!  Jenna took Teddy (the horse) over with a bucket of toys and Gavin found a car he was interested in.  Finally, he was on his feet!

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In this set of pictures, Jenna introduces the car to Teddy, who seemed very interested in checking it out.  In the next frame, Teddy is wearing the car on his head!

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Finally, we get to the business of riding!

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Thanks to everyone at Trinity Farms TN for providing a safe and loving environment for these special kids to learn!  Have a great week, everyone!  

p.s. I was using my Canon 50D with the 70-200mm f/2.8 L IS for these photos!  🙂